Kacang the Dissapointment

10 reasons as to why Kacang and I can never be together ...

10. He tells the truth to avoid being caught, often his truth hurts and suckzz

09. Girls,girls,girls,and girls... the more the better, he might even have a harem

08. He shattered my heart. I cried in the cab , the driver actually thought someone died

07. He doesn't care. He goes missing for months.

06. He forgets my Birthday,continuously for 4 years.

05. He only LIKES me.

04. My past life?? My bad Karma?

03. I cease to exist in your calling list.

02. YOU wasted my time , money and tears.

01. EzhudhungaL enn kallaRaiyil avan irakkamilladhavan, endRu paarungaL enn kallaRaiyil ivall paithiyakkari endRu..ha.ha.ha.) (PURE TAMIL,taken from Vasantha Maligai)

Translation: There should be a statement carved on my tombstone(only in the grave) saying that Kacang was despicable towards me, then the person reading em' should laugh and think that I'm a pathetic nut case ....

STupid,BOdoh ......

I went shoe hunting on thursday...to my horror the shoes that were on sale were horrible!! Buruk punya buruk!!! I was really unhappy.. the ones that they have in Nose is like ugly and they have been displaying the same darn ones for years!! I don see nice ones... the only consolation is that they are cheap... cheap for what?? They are ugly!! The nice ones are like Jimmy Choo's Stuart Weitzman,Oscar da Le Renta and other branded stuffs that only Mak Datin can afford wei.. Prima Vera is fine.. but even that looks ugly and no variety at all!!! Vincci is even worse.. This is a classic example of the fact that some well known brands could have ugly stuffs.. People rather go randomly into GUESS and buy a shoe there rather than hitting NOSE and VINCCI nowadays.. reason.. no decent ones.. and the service in mid valley suckz...

I prefer Vad and Vid... they have nice shoes there... and their bags are better and different.. though they are a bit expensive atleast they are worth it.. you actually have nice ones there.. I found one in Cheras Leisure Mall and Mid Valley... hmm... now I have to hunt for alternatives..

LAME !!!!!!

Jazz and i took an oath once.. 4 years back that we will never be a member of Friendster!!! Among millions of weirdos we are one of the few people on earth who are not associated with that web!!! and we will NEVER be so don't bug us by asking us the same cliche kind of stuff.. Contrary to what some people believe this is not the way to meet men!! and not the only way to keep in touch with old friends/pals... you people use this as a dating service to meet unknown people and also to tayang your current hot picture so that list of admirers would increase.. what kind of privacy is that??? Admit it la.. half of the people who are in your list would be someone you don't even know.. and this people are commenting on your pics?? what can you say by just looking at a person's face?? they send testimonials?? People , for your info testimonials are only done by people who know you well.. not by some bozo who is trying to figure you out or is flirting with you online!!!what about all the hypocrisy in not meeting up with strangers?? .. Even if you restrict your profile people can still kepoh about you by just hitting the search button or add you using an unknown profile!! I rest my case!!!

Stay Away!!!

I came back home after a nice Friday night with my cousin sis, we stayed at home,chilled,ate potato chips, and yacked for hours and stuffed pizza at 2 am and slept only at 5am,we had gal talk la.. came back home my mood became lousy, I looked at my dressing table and nearly cried!! It was in a total mess!! My eyeliners were missing,my moose bottle was open, mascara gone,earrings missing,eye shadows scattered!!! My SJP perfume was used,my privacy has been violated and I felt my soul has been ripped apart by this devil!!! Worse.. my 21st birthday white gold chain was also missing!!! I knew it.. this must be only one persons work... my sister!!!

How inconsiderate!!! You are working for gawd sake.. you use my stuffs .. put it back where it belongs!! or at least have the courtesy to tell me you want to use it.. or ask my permission first!!Its not as if I'm goin to say NO!! Plus you use them till they are finished and never bother to replace them.. why do you torture me??? why are you being sooooooo bitchy??? I'm a student who saves every penny to buy the things that i want..and yet you don't care or appreciate this,you violate everything you see!!Like " I came, I saw and I conquered!!".. more than being mad.. I'm upset la.. the worse part was when mom told that she was the one who told my sis to wear the chain!! Who would wear other people's gift?especially her 21st b'day gift?? It sentimental to me.. her stupid reason was I don't wear them!!! That has got nothing to do with you using my stuffs, whether i wear them or not its non of your business!! You gave em' to me and its mine, and its up to me to do whatever i want with it!!!

Devil, is so stupid la.. she really sakitkan hati orang!! You are 26 years old and you even have a bf .. ask him to buy for you la.. don't bug me..stop hurting me.. when you first started working.. you never even bought a dime for me.. you never did anything for me!!In fact you take my clothes and make them yours,never ask my permission, If i as much as use your slippers you would create a big scene.. so dramatic that even Marlon Brandon would applaud you from his grave!! You are sooo selfish... plus mom is ur best buddy and you both contemplate to hurt me at every opportunity!! Conspire to shatter my heart!!! Every penny that I use is MY money.. I never take things from a man, never .. never.. to me the only man who deserves to give me things would be my future husband(god knows who der hell is the guy), my guy friends have only given things to me on my b'day... which I receive with guilt and discomfort.. while you on the other hand have a bf for 7 years and he apparently buys expensive stuffs for you... why can't you ask him to buy these things for you instead of using mine??I'm not selfish.. its the way you treat me.. no respect at all for me as a person!!

I've been alone for 22 years while you enjoy life being with your bf.. why do you insist in crippling my life??? You don't care two hoots for me... plus i hate your bf.. you both are hypocrites who are trying to ruin mom and me... busuk hati betul la.... I have worked hard for everything, and i work twice harder than you to get things... my MotorolaE398 was bought buy me by working my ass off in Moron's office Angkasa Raya for 3 months during summer holidays, while you got your phone cause you merengek to mom wanting a phone after seeing mine!!! You are sooo spoiled... I thought you will eventually get married to that moron and get out but you insist in marrying at 30.. what about me??? I'm sick of being alone for 22 yrs and I want to have my own family by the time I'm 25, I have given up looking for Mr.Not so Right.. I don't mind mom looking for me a Ramasamy or Kuppusamy.. I'm just tired.. either this or be a nun.. as long as I get out of this darn place called home..

Mom aso like tak kisah... I'm telling you whether you like it or not.. I'm going to marry at 25 and chao.. cause if I wait for you to marry... I'll go mad or decide to commit euthanasia !!!You and moron have embezzled thousands from mom for years!!and she still forgave you people... I'm not going to do that.. If Papa was here you would not dare to behave in such ways.. I miss dad cause he would know what to do... I'm speechless.. tired and simply hurt by you...!!!!

I'm showing my middle finger !!

Little Miss Sunshine...

What's with kids nowadays? Why is beauty given such importance at a tender age? After the Oscars, I decided to watch Little Miss Sunshine just to see what was the hype all about, well I actually enjoyed the movie, only because in the end there's a different message.

The kid goes for the pageant knowing that she's got stiff competition from barbies, those kids actually look older than their age, with all the make-up and stuffs, they even had a swimsuit and evening wear competition,the highlight of the competition would have been the talent show,Olive actually shocked and scandalized a bunch of audience by doing a strip tease style performance to the tune Super Freak, taught to her by Grandpa??

Kids nowadays are pressured at a young age to look good, heck some are even dieting at a young age, going for facial at 8 and laser hair removal at 10??? They began training at a young age and aim to be Miss World or Miss Universe some day... honestly the ones who are winning are like 18 but they look like 28... some contemplate in doing cosmetic surgeries,some don't even contemplate, they just do it, nose job la, lip implants la... gosh???

Let kids be kids, remember Jon Benet Ramsey?? she was found murdered in the basement of her parents home by John Mark Karr a teacher... the kid got more attention than anyone because of her participation in beauty pageants... and she was only 6!!!For gawd sake, Let them be free, teach them art,music, educate them in a different way, teach them to love books and love themselves, not the either way around, how to wear mascara and eye liners... let them know beauty comes in various packages, and like wat Tupac Shakur said, " What is seen is temporary, what is unseen is eternal"

I had a fantastic childhood thanks to my parents, I played batu seremban, rounders, congkak, football using a tin can, we used to play netball back in school but we'll always end up playing futsal with it, we participated in debate,choral speaking and loads of other stuffs. So people teach your kids to appreciate their intelligence first through a different approach not through beauty pageants at a young age. If they want, they can join this stuffs when they can think for themselves, age should be taken into consideration,don't expose kids to this kinda media hype and attention, it would only take their childhood away.

Check out the video here,

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6DDOG5LE4-k

Huh???

This is weird....

Mom was home alone watching tv ,and she was on MC. My aunty who is a kepoh called and asked her to watch Ramayana on tv... so mom got excited and engrossed because they were airing her favourite saga.

I came home...

She was actually dissapointed, seeing the look on her face I knew something was wrong. Then she blurted that some weirdo actually changed the Ramayana story. In this version.. Ravana happened to be Sita's biological dad??WTH?? Valmiki who wrote the epic is going to somersault in his grave knowing somebody has changed the history... what are they trying to justify?? That those people who went for war were wasting their time..?? And who would want to kidnap his own daughter?? Raman Prince of Ayodhya is the reincarnation of Lord Vishnu , therefore he would be the last person on earth to dissapprove of a father reuniting with his daughter!! No offence, but either the director is Sri Lankan who is trying to justify something or a freak who got his infomation messed up.

Conclusion

Astro needs to check things before airing dumb movies.. you guys spoiled my mom's mood!!.. on second thoughts you spoiled mine too..... urghhhhhhh

Secrets....

I came across this post card when I was going through the post secrets column, this particular one really caught my attention, cause as simple as the secret sounds it really got into me, that as much as people think they are different, we are actually so much alike.. we all have secrets, some we share, some we don't, some of us pour our thoughts and secrets in different ways, we blog,some prefer the diary, myself I do both. My diary is more "me" than my blog, there are things that till today I can't seem to talk about to anyone, its not only the issue of trust, but it's more than that, how would the other person perceive me? I'm the sort of person who couldn't care two hoots about what people who are unimportant think of me, but when it comes to people I love, It really bothers me, which is why I prefer the diary.


Something inside me died when disappointments keeps crawling into my life, Life is game, and everytime I tell myself I want to play it better , I keep losing all over again, and picking up from where I left is even tough, this reminds me of a movie that I've watched, this little gal has a booth called "Secret Keeper" and she charges her clients 30 cents per person, from breaking your mothers china and lying about your true identity, she keeps their secrets in a paper back and stuffs them into her trunk, day by day, she feels bad cause her own personal secrets are being piled up, she has no one to talk to,my point is as much as we like to have our privacy, some things are better told than never, choose the person you are about to open up to wisely,at times you don't want comments you just want someone who actually listens for once, atleast start writing a diary, this way you wont have people invading your space.



Now back to my disappointments, I hate them, I want to change them, but I cant, so I've decided to just embrace them and get over it. I wish life could be an open book, if only people could stop pretending and be honest, you might be amazed with how much you can put up with. Secrets.. .. the remaining ones haunt me at times, but nowadays I tell it out , if not all, bits and pieces, but till today the one person I trust the most is my diary. Secrets can make people put on a mask, sometimes its necessary, but most of the time you'll end up feeling lousy, so people If you think your heart has had enough of secrets, there is nothing wrong in pouring them out, be it to your best friend, diary, through post cards, your dog, or trust me even to a stranger , its your prerogative and honestly we'll feel much better.

Until You...

A teacher in a school for wealthy young ladies, Sheridan, Bromleigh is hired to accompany one of her students, heiress Charise Lancaster, to England to meet her fiancé. When her charge elopes with a stranger, Sheridan wonders how she will ever explain it to Charise's intended, Lord Burleton.
Standing on the pier, Stephen Westmoreland, the Earl of Langford, assumes the young woman coming toward him is Charise Lancaster -- and informs her of his inadvertent role in a fatal accident involving Lord Burleton the night before. And just as Sheridan is about to speak, she steps into the path of a cargo net loaded with crates!
Sheridan awakens in Westmoreland's mansion with no memory of who she is; the only hint of her past is the puzzling fact that everyone calls her Miss Lancaster. All she truly knows is that she is falling in love with a handsome English earl, and that the life unfolding before her seems full of wondrous possibilities...

Source: http://www.mcnaughtized.com/untilyou.html

WARNING...

As much as I love to blog.. I'm a no nonsense person.. I wont tolerate any nuisance .. mine is not I repeat not a blog for people to comment about politics... don't irritate me beyond limits.. is either you read and comment sensibly or you don't.. my blog is not a thrash place folks...

Thank You....

Beauty Shop...

Being a vain port I do visit the the beauty shop.. this is where I get my eyebrows , and facials done. I've known my beautician friend for many years.. since I was 15 .. it feels almost like home and she is someone dear to me.. the situation in the beauty shop is sometimes hilarious and sometimes very weird.. the drama goes on.. everyday there would be a new character popping out of no where.. Let me list the people with drama queen tags ..

The owner- She's sweet and pretty.. often complains about her weight,

opens whenever she wants and does not follow in accordance with the time printed in her visiting card,

her bf looks like a principle who caught a bunch of students playing truant,

thinks the saloon guy has a crush on her.

The Best Friend- Another drama queen who can give lessons to

upcoming actors who need help,Number one gossip,she knows about everything,

(she happens to date a policeman) even if you keep your mouth shut she keeps feeding

you with juicy news,a mother of two who doesn't give a damn what people think of her and

has issues with other people using her nailcutter, is afraid of the owners bf.. dono why ler...

The Saloon Guy- I though he was gay the first time I laid my eyes on him,

practically everytime I pay my visit to the beauty shop he doesn't seem to

be entertaining clients , he ends up cleaning and mopping the place a few times,

told by another drama king that once there was this two Latino ladies asking him about

Brazilian wax.. nodded his head and said ya ya ya... lolz... the dude had no idea w

hat those ladies were asking. He thought they wanted to rebond their hair...... how dumb!

Drama King- Happened to be the Saloon Guy's client at first,

ended up being gossip buddies with The Owner after bringing his gf for a facial,

ever since, he never associated himself with the saloon guy, a tall

dude who talks at the speed of a lightning, has weird sense of humour and likes bitching...

now this phrase made me wonder who is the actual gay person??

Family - They actually have their family discussion there, ironically

they think we don't understand their language (i understand them perfectly)... lolz... its fun sometimes to eavesdrop, younger brother has issues with alcohol and stuffs,

has a gorgeous sister with temper issues, mother is often caught eating, eating and

eating.. nyamph,nyamph.....

And the drama goes on..

Shoes Part 1.... Stuart weitzman

The Nighty Nite Gang...

We've known each other for years... with Gods grace we'll be there for each other through sick and happiness.. We are known as the Nighty Nite gang.. Vani gave us the name .. cause we always come home at weird hours until our handphones will be ringing continuously.. all of us would have the same word flashing on the phone Home Home !! the funny and good part is that we don't club or drink... we eat and yack and yack..all of us are uni students, with different characteristics and attitude.. but we have the chemistry that ables us to communicate well, Since I was watching Dances with Wolves I decided to give all of us a Sioux name... hehe.. you know names like Red Hawk, Bear white, Yellow Deer....

Vani- Makes weird noises (that's her Sioux name)

Muthu- Non tamil speaking ( he has another group contradicting to this one.. The K's(all Chinese members xcluding him)

Khaya- The Sensitive One

Prisha- Funny Face

Me- Talks in her sleep

Cool ha.. now we have Sioux names that we can use when we don't want people to know our identity..

source:http://http://yakimas.free.fr/Chef%20wanduta%20Sioux%20Lakota.jpg

The Good, Bad and Worse...

I had the opportunity of being alone at home on one fortunate day.. classes were cancelled and I was delirious , plus the very fact of being in a solitary confinement... made me smile... before this the only privacy i get is in the bathroom... but not today .. I decided to watch the collection of movies which was stacked in a corner.. The Shawshank Redemption.. one hell of a cool movie... the dude got sentenced for a crime he did not commit and got stucked in a awful place for twenty years.. and managed to get out from prison using a small hammer which even had Morgan Freeman mentioning that it would probably take him 6000 years to get it done.. i loved Tim Robbins character.. he was smart,witty,and also different.. different in the sense of his personality,he was difficult to read.. he ain't no open book.. Morgan Freeman impressed me with his institutional concept.. he said in prison he's the guy who can get things done but outside he'll be a no gooder.. the character Brooks commited suicide because he thought he was simply not intelligent enough for the outside world.. he was the librarian for gawd knows how many years.. in the end i realised that the little things the we get so fed up and irritated waiting for.. is actually worth waiting for.. if you have the determination , patience and a whole bunch of guts to execute ,anything is possible. Now.. the good one ends..

I still had time.. so I watched Dances with wolves... I enjoyed watching the movie cause i got to know a culture so different than mine... but the movie was sooooooo dragyy... and Mary McDonnell( Stands with a fist) looks older than KC .. in fact she looks older than her adopted parents... the one scene that i really enjoyed was Kc dancing around the fire ... and that Two Socks( the wolf) was indeed worth watching.. but i prefered The Shawshank Redemption..

Then i decided to watch Ah Aah.. ( Tamil pic) hell... i had a horrible headache afterwards.. so dumb that SJ Suryah deserves an award for annoyance.. with vulgarity and irritating dialogues this one is not in my good books.. two people living in sin ( living together) he is suspicious.. she is a nag.. he is a pervert.. i liked their neighbour though.. songs were fine.. but these clowns spoiled em' , movie was horrible.. SJ overacted.. but if you want to watch a movie that you want to condemn ,do watch this one.. you might even be satisfied cause it literally evokes your bitchy mood..

Quick Pizza Sandwiches

Original recipe yield:4 servings
PREP TIME
10 Min
COOK TIME
10 Min
READY IN
20 Min

INGREDIENTS
1 (8 ounce) package refrigerated crescent rolls
4 slices mozzarella cheese
4 teaspoons tomato paste
1/2 teaspoon dried oregano

DIRECTIONS

Preheat oven to 350 degrees F (175 degrees C).
Unwind the roll dough, and separate into 4 rectangles. Pinch together perforations to seal. Place 2 rectangles on a 9x13 inch baking sheet. Moisten edges of rectangles with water. Place 2 slices mozzarella on each rectangle. Top each with 2 teaspoons tomato paste. Sprinkle each with 1/4 teaspoon oregano. Cover each with remaining dough. Press the edges firmly with a fork to seal.
Bake in the preheated oven 10 to 12 minutes, or until golden brown.

source:All recipes

Real women have curves... or is it a confession of a fat person..

Duh!!! I'm single.. so what?? and why do people nag and bug me by asking about the same old apocalypse story.. my disaster remains to be mine.. even if i want to forget things the people surrounding me would not let me to do so.. every f****** day they keep reminding of a story that I want to put behind me and simply get over it.. but nahhh... I'm still trying.. its hard... but at least I'm trying.. but these people make things even more difficult for me.. and i know they mean well.. but let bygones be bygones.. it not like as if I'm Samantha or Isabella from Bewitched .. the minute i twitch my nose I'm not going to get things done.. i can't snap my fingers and catch a big fish!!! I'm only human.. a homosapien with normal feelings and issues..

I'm f******tired of people asking me why the f*** I'm single.. I'm single cause I'm single la.. maybe its meant to be this way for me.. but these people can come up with weird things to thrash at me.. an old friend who is dear to me met up with me for coffee.. her bf joined her soon.. so two's a company three's a crowd.. she called me back after the get together and told me that her bf thinks the reason I'm single is because I need to lose weight.. and in order to catch a guy i have to do so.. Yeah... i when like wtf??? I'm hitting the gym for what the f*** then?? but what has my weight got to do with catching a bf?? its my health... and I'm not fattttt... chubby maybe... ok i admit it I'm not the scrawny thin kinda gal yet I'm not fat nor am i slim... f***... but at least I'm doing my best to be in a better shape.. but wtf has this got to do with the other one.. that comment actually got into me.. and brought me down man...

What else?? you are not thin enough.. you are not fair enough... you are not rich enough... you are what else?????? I'm soooooooooo sick of listening to these people bitch and bitch and wonder about my status.. some even have the nerve to tell me that I'm single cause I'm choosy.... wtf??? I was .. still am?? i dono man... in love with a man with many many flawsssssss yet it didn't bother me cause i loved him.. if i went for looks or other criterion i wouldn't be in this f****** mess but i don't regret them simply cause i am who i am today because of my history.... so you bozo's out there get into your minds that there is more to a women than her weight .. height.. colour... race or even as lame as this may sound her accent... and the stereotyping women with larger bosom means she's got no brains is even pathetic and disgusting...

I'm sick of meeting immature people who cant even have decent conversation... and stop bugging me about my past... its gone... its never gonna come back... what is meant for me would be for me and whats not.. is simply not meant to be.. i hate fretting but hate it even more when people invade my space..... for once i want to meet people who appreciate the fact that I've got brains , morality and principles... i swear only when I'm really angry.. and trust me I'm really pissed now...

Morgan Fairchild vs Bo Derek

Honestly I prefer MF so much better... she looks hot and I feel she 's got more spunk.. BD on the other hand looks old and tired .. plus whenever I get to watch Fashion House I get more and more irritated with Derek.. and yupz though MF is kinda bitchy in FH I actually like her bitchiness.. she's got style man... and that laughter... wow.. very very villainous... Check out MF's funky hats on that show.. very stylish

MF plays Sophia Blakely

BD plays Maria Gianni

Source:

http://www.geocities.com/morgan_fairchild_fan/image2.html

http://www.emigrant.ie/Alumni/MorganFairchild.jpg

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Image:Bo-derek.jpg

http://www.celebritywonder.com/cgi-bin/frame/redirect.cgi?boderek==http://www.superiorpics.com/bo_derek/pictures1.html

Baked Havarti Chicken

Original recipe yield:4 servings
PREP TIME
20 Min
COOK TIME
40 Min
READY IN
9 Hrs 30 Min

INGREDIENTS
4 boneless, skinless chicken breast halves
1 (8 ounce) package sliced fresh mushrooms
2 (4 ounce) cans whole green chili peppers, drained, and sliced lengthwise
4 ounces sliced Havarti cheese with dill
Italian dressing
Greek seasoning (optional)
1 tablespoon butter
1 tablespoon white cooking wine
1 tablespoon Worcestershire sauce
1/2 teaspoon garlic salt
salt

DIRECTIONS
Preheat oven to 400 degrees F (200 degrees C).
Marinate chicken in Italian Dressing and Greek Seasoning, if using, for a minimum of 30 minutes.
Place chicken in a 9 x 13 inch baking dish. Sprinkle top with additional Greek seasoning, if desired, and bake in preheated oven for approximately 25 minutes, or until no longer pink in center and juices run clear.
Shortly before chicken is done, melt butter in a skillet over medium-high heat until bubbling. Pour in wine, Worcestershire sauce, and garlic salt, and bring to a boil. Stir in mushrooms. Reduce to a simmer, cover, and cook until mushrooms are tender, about 3 to 5 minutes. Adjust seasoning with salt as needed.
Remove chicken from the oven. Lay green chili slices on top of each breast, then top each chili with a slice of cheese. Return to the oven until cheese has melted.
Remove chicken from the oven, top with mushrooms and their pan juices, and serve.

source: All Recipes

Jackie O's Seduction Secrets

The classy, no-fail way to pick up quality men

1. Use flaws to your advantage.
In an essay that won her a prestigious Vogue magazine prize, a young Jackie wrote, “I am…5'7”, with brown hair... and eyes so unfortunately far apart that it takes three weeks to have a pair of glasses made.”
So.. if you're short .. don't whinge.. men like pixie looking women.. look at Rani Mukherjee she's hot..
2. Don't spook men needlessly.
Although she was curious and well-read, a young Jackie opted to deflate her smarts around bachelors, feigning nervousness, for instance, about exams or her ability to finish coursework. In the same time don't act dumb or think men prefer dumb women.. what Jackie is trying to say is that you dont have to proove that you're Einstein's daughter to impress a man..
3. Speak softly (and carry good lipstick).
Jackie made a concerted effort to temper her conversational voice sometime during college. She willed herself to speak sotto voce — typically drawing out the S in words like “yessssssss.” Gentlemen callers found the trait seductive; it also afforded her the kind of attention a conspiratorial whisper can conjure. Even as a young man, admirer Thomas Guinzburg (a college-age friend of Jackie's and later her boss at Viking) “found that pretty attractive.” Since this breathy technique compels a man to lean closer to hear you (thus bringing your mouth into greater focus), be sure to have your lips primed with a flattering — and preferably unflavored — color
4.Don't scoff at matchmaking.
.Jackie was by no means a fan of the practice, but it is how she and Jack got together. Probably one of the biggest mistakes in her life.. watever happen to Judith Exner and Monroe?? Didn't Exner met Jack through Sinatra?? Looks like Jackie was not the only woman falling for that trap...
5.Be detached, and tune out all “dating” shows.
Jackie's father had firm opinions about how a woman should capture a man: “Play hard to get!” he'd admonish repeatedly. She took his advice seriously, preferring to exude nonchalance rather than commit quickly or easily.
6. Make him the epicenter of your universe — at least until dessert arrives
Always appear intensely fascinated by the man you're with. Never look bored, never glance over his shoulder, and always draw him out with endless questions.
7. When three's a crowd, make it four.
Remind a roaming man that he isn't the only one with outside love connections... yeah.. remind them that if they think they have a market we have one too...
8.Cozy up to the family kingpin.
Thanks mainly to her grandfather, Jackie knew how to handle older, powerful men — especially her father-in-law, Joe Kennedy, who favored her and her smart spunkiness over his other daughters-in-law.
9.It isn't over until the altar.
Practical to her core, Jackie had no qualms about keeping her options open during her first — yes, first — engagement, to John Husted in 1952. She went about town with, among others, a dreamy journalist who had been at the Washington Times-Herald. Was this good-girl behavior? Probably not. Did she follow her gut instincts, and eventually land a future president instead? You get the idea.
10. Get the book la.. and ya be yourself dont go on pretending .. he should love you for who you are..

Source: I Village ,

Shelly Branch

Shop around the corner...

Malaysian's polite?? then you have not stepped your foot in Petaling Street.. I 've had my share of bad times there.. whilst doing my A'levels I had one of my many unfortunate experiences dealing with some creatures from that darn place .. the Cetak Rompak Cd guys will harrass you until you feel violated ,mind you they also made some pretty racist comments,despite the big sign board boldly stating that they will be fined if caught selling pirated items..they continue to do so.. typical Malaysians.. apart from that ,the hookers in PS are at every corner of the street..roaming freely..soliciting with their clients.. huh?? Indeed its Eye on Malaysia.. wait a minute dont they like have a Police station somewhere there?? nearby the gurduwara? There were times that I would literally cry knowing that when Sunday passes Monday would be college day... the very idea of stepping into that awful place gives me the creep.. to console myself I let my imagination go wild.. I pretend that its the paleolithic era.. where people are weird and they idulge in engraving on stones and bones..

Many have the idea that things are cheap in PS... on the contrary its the complete opposite.. Life was cool cause I get to meet ostensible characters who claim that the bag that they carry is genuine GUCCi.. who you bluffing la??? The only other reason I go there nowadays is because of the cute book shop in Central Market. CM' claims to be the largest wet market in the city, its across the Klang river and opposite Dayabumi . You can get there by PUTRA Lrt or by any other public transport,opening hours are from 10am to 10 pm both weekdays and weekend. I love the book corner.. they have uncountable collection of good books.. from various authors.. be it Dan Brown,Sidney Sheldon or Sophie Kinsella.. believe it or not they have the old and new version of Mills and Boon.. plus magazines , local and international ones .. the owners are very polite and helpful.. Mom and I have been their regular customers for years.. and I plan to be one for a very long time.. and the idea of my children continuing the custom or the tradition gives me the thrill.. well what about the price?? its a second hand bookstore.. they do have new ones but the cool part is you get to return them if you want to buy another .. therefore you dont have to fork up money everytime you need a new one..you sort of automatically have an account there.. though the shop is small.. it gives me a sense of belonging and comfort.. its more approachable than the larger book stores.. reminds me of the movie Shop Around the Corner.. (classical movie starring Margaret Sullavan and James Stewart) l.. its cute, quiet and romantic.. you guys should check it out...


Located at:
Jalan Hang Kasturi Tel: (03) 2274 9966.

One Art.. by Elizabeth Bishop

One Art

The art of losing isn't hard to master;
so many things seem filled with the intent
to be lost that their loss is no disaster.
Lose something every day.
Accept the fluster
of lost door keys, the hour badly spent.

The art of losing isn't hard to master.
Then practice losing farther, losing faster:
places, and names, and where it was you meant
to travel. None of these will bring disaster.

I lost my mother's watch. And look! my last, or
next-to-last, of three loved houses went.
The art of losing isn't hard to master.
I lost two cities, lovely ones. And, vaster,
some realms I owned, two rivers, a continent.
I miss them, but it wasn't a disaster.

---Even losing you (the joking voice, a gesture
I love) I shan't have lied. It's evident
the art of losing's not too hard to master
though it may look like (Write it!) like disaster.

This particular poem caught my attention while i was watching In her shoes..starring Cameron Diaz and Toni Collette.. Elizabeth writes about losing things.. as cynical as this may sound.. we do lose something almost every day..unknown to us.. Anonymous told me that normal people dont keep track of what they've lost .. but what they've gained.. but if you are so afraid of your own history how are you going to embrace your present and future life?? be it youth,love,opportunity,time or beauty.. Losing is hard..as much as we get use to the idea of losing.. it remains as something new to us.. and for once i wish i would stop losing .. but if we dont lose and dont make wrong choices in life how on earth are we going to learn to correct them? Honesty is what I need from another party.. You might be amazed at how much I can put up with".. what say you??

Top 10 Places wer you can shop till drop...or get broke..

Mark your calendars people.. from 16th june till the 2nd of September our very own Mega SALE Carnival is gonna start.. almost 70% off..so save your money..these are the places that you should really check out... shopaholics countdown starts:

1.Cats whiskers 7-1, First Floor, Jalan Telawi 2, tel: 2282-7317) a very chic selection of clothes.. you can hang out for hours there and try
out as many clothes as you want... then you can chill out in No. 20 Jalan Telawi Tiga, Bangsar Baru Starbucks la,,,,,,
2. Spade Klcc : Check out for all der cool bags ,( clutch,evening bag, and so on) dresses ( i like their bold prints) and and belts..
3. Momoe Midvalley - if u guys are into japanese street fashion..check out this outlet .. i like their monkey caps and shoes..
4. Calvin Klein JeansG083 Ground Floor midvalley- invest in a proper fitted jeans .. trust me its worth it..

For those who are lazy towalk aroud the mall... hit Metrojaya.. can be found in: One utama, Sogo, Midvalley and Subang Parade get SJP's new scent .. Lovely in the same time make sure you visit

5. Somerset Bay- gives you the contemporary image,elegant,romantic.. and fabric is light.. plus i love the colours..
6. East India-cool sophisticated clothes..warm colours .. if you are hunting for a nice top make sure you drop by this particular store..
7. Nose/Vincci- they would probably have the most reasonable price ever at this time.. get your shoes at this time.. it will be cheaper than cheap??
8. Isetan Kl- If i'm not mistaken the sale ended today.. dont worry folks it will start again..
Ladies Shoes & Leather Goods Fair Date:9 ~ 20 Mar' 07 Venue:LOT 10 - Concourse
both the Klcc one and LOt 10 are known for its sale... superb sale.. MNG.. Nicole..Soda..Levis Jeans... even der bags are superb.. i love the MNG bags..
9.Jusco: Alpha Angle, 1 Utama, Taman Maluri (9th March till 1st of April)-and it will roll all over again during Mega sale...
Economical shopping...for those who couldnt be bothered with big labels try Cleef.,Sam,Arcadia and Chic Avenue

1. Mumbai Se- I wonder if they will have sale... i visited the one in BV2 and nearly died looking at the prices.. wah.. i thought Guess was cut throat.. this was even worse.. but their clothes were simply superb and elegant..trendiest designed outfits, if you guys really wanna buy stuffs from there carry at least 5k with you.. (in my dreams)or else do what i did.. window shop!!! Oh ya they have one in S'pore too... lolz.. double the price double the merrier..

Contradictions.. Lies.. and..Games..

Whoever who gave us the idea that fairy tales do come true basically lied.. like it or not people ,things have changed.. over the years the players change but the game remains the same.. forget about fairy tales.. movies like Jerry Mcguire with taglines like "You Complete Me" could only be something that a script writer can come up with.. and yet everyday before we go to bed we pray that tomorrow would indeed be a better day and eventually we are going to meet "THE ONE"... Yes people.. you got it right.. I'm single.. not diseasead..not miserable but simply annoyed about certain issues in regards of relationship..


There is no right person... many wait.. but eventually they end up being married to someone because they are obliged too,marriage based on compromise..or convenience .. papa and mama forced you to marry miss/mr freak... or simply because they need a companion...I dont blame them .. everyone has their own reasons and this reminds me of an incident during a confession period with a friend, I told her that I rather be alone than to be married to a jerk.. her reply was something that i could not beleive off.. she said do you want to watch soap operas.. eat popcorns and feed your dog biscuits while friends your age have babies?? I actually gave her opinion a serious thought.. being alone for 22 years of your life is bad enough can you imagine another century??And just sometimes loneliness may haunt you.. whilst they have someone who they can yack hours on the phone with there I am multitasking by sweating, cleaning up my make-up kit and watching ANTM... just as my thoughts began to see a different picture.. imagining myself in a nun's outfit and scrubbing the floor.. thats when my phone rang..


Jane Doe told me all the jazz about another friends bad episode with her bf whom she's been dating for years.. he called her names and used foul language ,he attempted to hit her, nah wait a minute ... on second thoughts the actus reus was carried out .. i shuddered?? how on earth can they tolerate an abusive relationship?? the reason i used the word tolerate was because the same princess who cried assault and battery was seen holding hands with arse the following week... once again she might have had her own reasons to stay and its her prerogative but why stay with a guy who doesnt value your opinion nor does he has the least respect for you as a women?? ERm.. Women tend to hold on to the only thing that they have invested mostly in... love.. simply because time.. money.and their emotions has been involved.. and that happens to be the hardest thing to leave..


How can one be friends after the most humilliating episode in their life?? In the same time another nagging thought enters..we cant ignore not knowing whether the person is alive , is he doin ok or not ... and I realise that it's ok to care even if the other person is a jerk.. we continue being who we are.. but ultimately there is one thing that we have to face... FACT: MOve on... he/she was just not into you.. I believe in karma.. maybe we weren't meant to be.. Every second is important.. things have changed.. people have changed.. nowadays they even dare to tell you that you've been seconds late ...in regards of your existence intheir love life.. (meaning they are already in a relationship) aiks..?? wtf?? I mean some people believe that its all's fair in love and war.. I agree.. but only when you think that the battle is worth the risk.. and the person you are fighting for has proven that he/she deserves your acknowledgement.. . jangan tepuk sebelah tangan.. fact is 80 percent of the time is filled with EXCUSES... and yes the whole process starts all over again.. learn how to heal.. believe.. and hope... dont plan anything.. follow the waves.. take things slowly.. perhaps there is something better for you...

Come on... we are sick of excuses.. its either you want to make it work... or you want out.. there is no such thing as I have to be with that particular person ... we always have choices in whatever we do.. its just that we limit ourselves by saying we dont have one.. people come and go into our lives.. and often we are placed second best to everything.. as soon as we realise that things arent going to change and move on.. thats when life is much simpler.. remember we aint no mystic soothhsayers who can telepathically decode other people's thoughts and emotions... LOve comes in a strange way.. and the art of failure is even stranger... maybe with love comes money?? maybe not.. maybe people are afraid of being alone?? maybe not.. it remains a secrecy.. think you can play the game right?? nah... you'll either end up losing with you butt up.. or picking up pieces from where you left for your entire life.. I watched Music and Lyrics on Valentines Day with my gal friends.. Drew Berrymore wore this gorgeous red dress.. and yup Hugh Grant's bon bon shaking was hilarious yet cute... POP!! The movie analyses people with complicated characters.. till the end Drew does not succeed in confronting the jerk who wrote a book about her.. but what the story teller is trying to convey is.. you dont necessarily have to do that.. sometimes.. it just doesnt matter.. a jerk will always be a jerk.. leopards dont change their spots..

Back in Convent.. when i use to pass by Starbucks there use to be this particular dude who sits there and stares at the ceiling for a very long time... now I realise that either dude was in a bad relationship or his MIL moved in with him.. I'm not saying relationships are bad.. I am saying that not all are worth the effort... And being single isn't that bad...Whereby I dont mind watching Grey's Anatomy .. stuffing my mouth with popcorn and feeding my dog .. Indeed doing this routine is 100 times better than being in a sour, ugly draggy relationship.. so single people cheer up......